On July 24, I created a post titled ” A huge sigh”.Â
The information I am now providing today is a continuation to that post.Â Â
Ok…. so here goes, the latest update….. sorry for my silence lately, I’ve been inÂ a bit of a state of shock and disbelief and it’s still trying to sink in.Â Let’s just say, I cannot express words to you as to how great it felt for me to be able to give my Mom some news that was good for a change, well I should say “great” !Â She shed some tears for sure, but each tear looked like heavy boulders releasing from her heart giving her some relief, that’s the best way I can describe it really.
Mom came with me when I met with my oncologist last week.Â This was the first time I saw Dr. Mackenzie since April when I had my last chemo treatment prior to liver surgery.Â When we walked into the cancer clinic it felt like it had been a really long time since I was there, even though it had only been 8 weeks.Â I left Mom in the waiting area while I met with my doctor, this is the first time that I attended an appointment alone.Â I felt strong enough (mentally) to be able to remember to ask all the questions I needed, it gave me such an impowerment.Â
Dr. Mackenzie asked all the usual questions about how I was feeling post surgery since I was at the 8 week mark.Â I explained to her that this surgery has been much more difficult to recover from than my first surgery (bowel surgery) back in December.Â The best way I could describe to her of what I have been feeling is that I feel like there is a brick that I am carrying under my ribs and above my belly button all on the right side where the largest part of the incision is.Â My tummy feels tight yet numb and it stills feels really “wierd” to touch my tummy because it is so different to feel things internally only rather than externally.Â When my home care nurse Vanessa comes to change the dressing I close my eyes and we test out my progress on regaining sensation.Â If I touch it I can feel it, but it’s a mind game thing because my brain is telling my hand or fingers what to do and I think it’s just a remembered feeling.Â When Vanessa does it, I keep my eyes closed.Â She moves her fingers all around the incisional area which is quite large and basically I tell her when I can actually feel something.Â The sensations are improving somewhat but I wonder if it will ever return fully.Â Hmmm.Â Not a big deal, I can live with it, I am just grateful that my liver is regenerating and hopefully it’s just like brand new.
Sorry I got off topic there for a moment, on with the great news.Â Dr. Mackenzie reviewed the pathology report with me again basically confirming the news that my surgeon had already advised me of 4 weeks prior.Â What caught me by total surprise was that she told me that she has never seen these results in her entire career.Â Results of where the pathology test states that there were “no signs” of cancer at all in the liver portion that was removed.Â My immediate thought was that the lab tech probably screwed up on the test.Â I didn’t say this out loud, but I did ask if this news warranted a second testing to be done.Â She said, yes she has already put in a request to do this.Â She also mentioned that she was surprised that I didn’t go off the deep end after being told that this operation might not have been necessary at all.Â Â I said “are you kidding me?”Â When you are told you have 2 years at best to live, you go into over-drive and you do whatever is necessary to prolong your time.Â How could I live with myself and face my family and friends if I had told them, “No I don’t think the operation is needed, I will just give up and let cancer win… NOT !”
Basically the appointment that day was to find out when I needed to start up chemo again and what the schedule and course of action would be.Â I knew it would start soon as it usually does right about 8 weeks after surgery and I was at the 8 week point.Â Would I be required to do the 6 remaining treatments (3 months time) or would I need more?Â I told her that if necessary or if it was an option I would do another full 12 treatments if I could just for insuranceÂ so to speak.Â Rick and I spoke about this before I went to the appointment and he said, Karrie… don’t be stupid, you know that your body has been through a lot and that you are still trying to recover from surgery, even though you seemed to handle the chemo side effects pretty good the first time around, when you start back up on them again, you must realize and prepare yourself that it’s likely going to knock you flat on your ass this time.Â Be realistic.Â I knew he was right, but being the stubborn determined person I am, I didn’t want to admit that he was right.Â Â I’ll do the chemo and consider it the next chapter on kicking cancer’s butt.Â
Well much to my surprise, Dr. Mackenzie informed me that she didn’t feel itÂ would be beneficial to me to continue with any further chemo treatments at this time.Â If my body didn’t show signs of cancer, then it wasn’t necessary to continue the meds.Â I asked again, if these “spots” or “things” on my liver that showed up on the CT scans (that I saw with my own eyes) were maybe benign tumours, would the chemo have destroyed them?Â She said no, benign tumours are not affected by chemo.Â This lead me to believe that they were indeed actually cancerous tumours and that the chemo did it’s job and totally wiped them out.Â I also believe that my new healthy eating since December also contributed to it’s success.Â Fruits and veggies galore, protein drinks, vitamin water, power juice pure supplements, etc.Â
I will need to go for a follow up CT scan in a few weeks.Â Â The scan will be of my abdomen and my chest.Â I asked why a scan of the chest area.Â She said that if or when cancer returns, it will show up in the liver first (even though the primary cancer started in the colon region).Â Â Only 5% of colon cancer patients have recurrence in the colon area.Â Hmm… that is interesting I thought.Â (Here I am in my mind planning my next surgery already to reverse the colostomy and I haven’t fully recovered from liver surgery, what’s wrong with me, this shit hurts !)Â Guess I just want to be normal again.Â I snapped back into the moment and continued listening to Dr. Mackenzie as she explained the reasons for the scans.Â She said that they will closely monitor the chest region because the next progression for the cancer to spread to is the lungs.Â Lungs?Â Ok, I’m thinking, I have never smoked, I’m good, it won’t spread to my lungs.Â Then I snap back into the present again and ask her, if it shows up in the lungs what happens then?Â What happens if it appears in my liver again too?Â She said with this look on her face that I knew was of empathy, that they would have to operate again.Â I am thinking, no problem, you can cut me open as many times asÂ needed because I intend on driving Rick nuts for as many years as possible.Â (I try to find humour in every situation, good and bad)Â She also sent me to the lab for some bloodwork, a few viles later Mom and I were out the door and I was able to share the great news with her.
She told me that she is discussing my case with some fellow colleagues this week because she was so surprised by the results of the pathology and she herself wanted a few other opinions by some other oncologists.Â Â I think this is great.Â Let’s look at some explanations perhaps.Â Can we chalk this up to devine intervention?Â Did I get a miracle that we all hope exist?Â So as it stands right now, my case is being presented to a “tumour board” of doctors.Â I will be meeting with Dr. Mackenzie again soon to review what is discussed at their roundtable discussions of brain-storming.
On another note, when a cancer patient receives their last chemo treatment at the clinic, it is a custom for the chemo nurses to chime a bell and the other patients and their families that are in the clinic will clap and or cheer you on as you leave to wish you well.Â It’s quite moving.Â After I told Mom the “no chemo” news when we were in the parking lot heading to the car, I am thinking to myself…Â “Crap, I am missing out on the bell chiming and the encouragement”.Â Oh well, I’ll create my own and I’ll do better !Â I am celebrating !Â We are leaving this cancer clinicÂ (without a chemo pump attached to me for 2 days) and I am treating my Mom to lunch and I won’t feel nauseated because I don’t have any poison flowing through my veins!Â
I paid the fee with the parking attendant and as I drove out of the parking lot of the clinic I started honking the horn many timesÂ (chiming the bell) to celebrate.Â I am sure that I annoyed some other drivers and they were probably thinking what is that chick’s problem?Â
What theÂ Â f_ _ k is she honking at?Â Road rage in a parking lot?Â Get a grip woman!Â What’s even better is that Mom and I couldn’t hide behind tinted window glass either.Â We took my new car which is a convertible and we had the top down.Â Yep, two crazy woman in a hospital parking lot.Â I was thinking about renting the movie “Thelma and Louise” when I got home.Â Â
Mom and I laughed as we were eating our lunch, we both realized that we were eating so fast, we figured it was because we were so excited about the news.Â We were both on our cell phones sending out text messages to share the news.Â It was time to head home to Chatham (an hour’s drive).Â I said to Mom…. hope you are ready for the ride!Â You will likely have a headache by the time we get home, the sun is shining, it’s hot out, the top is down and I plan on turning up the music loud and driving fast!Â Damn this is the best I have felt in 8 months despite the fact that my stomach was aching from eating lunch so fast (minor detail).
I have had my new car for approx. 2 weeks now.Â I love it !Â It’s a 2006 Pontiac Solstice in mint condition.Â Black on black, 5 speed manual transmission, leather interior, 2 seats, no trunk space, totally not a practical vehicle.Â There’s room for your purse and that’s pretty much it. I decided that I was going to blow some of my retirement money and spend Rick’s inheritance for him (giggle insert here).Â Keep in mind that I did this prior to receiving the no more chemo news.Â Â Oh well, life is short and cancer can appear again at any given moment.Â Screw it, I decided to live like my brother does…Â live for today !
Mom asked if she could drive part of the way home, I said sure of course !Â So I pulled over, we changed seats and continued home, music still loud and wind blowing hair all over.Â (well her’s anyway)Â I still don’t have too much hair, but it is growing, I am self conscious about it so I wear hats, bandanas or my wigs still.Â Mom was wearing a ball cap too.Â First time I saw her in one, she was styling !
Here are a few photos of that day.Â The first one was taken before we left Mom’s house on our way to London, before the good news came, the next ones were taken on our drive home, self portraits.Â I snapped the picture of Mom while she was driving.Â We were laughing because the song that was playing at the time was by the Pussycat Dolls titled “Don’t ya wish your girlfriend was hot like me?”Â We had some good laughs making fun of ourselves.Â Mom cracks me up.Â She is learning from me that sometimes you just have to say ” f _ _ kÂ Â it” and go with theÂ flow.Â
Cancer can take a back seat in my life…. oh wait a minute, that’s right…. there is no back seat !